Saturday, March 26, 2016

PTSD and recovery come alive in Railway Man




The Railway Man

By Eric Lomax

Reviewed by
Geoffrey W. Sutton


The Railway Man is an emotionally powerful film based on the true story of Eric Lomax. Eric (Colin Firth) meets Patti (Nicole Kidman) on a train. We’re on a quick romantic journey to marriage but soon discover Eric’s Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), which is linked to brutal torture as a POW. The severe PTSD symptoms threaten to destroy his relationship along with his life.

We’re in a time shuffle from the relationship and early marriage in the 1980s to WWII.

Lomax was a British officer sent to railway work as a slave of the Japanese when Singapore fell in 1942. After his marriage, Eric discovers one of his Japanese torturers, Nagase, is alive. Now the gut-wrenching inner struggle takes place on a larger stage. The war is not over for either man. Rather than reveal the dramatic and unpredictable conclusion, I’ll stop with the story-telling.




Clinicians like me have seen many people with PTSD. The portrayal of Eric’s struggle is incredibly moving. Denial followed by torment, anger, and anxiety is palpable as is Eric’s drive to survive rather than succumb.

What can be learned
 The ability of humans to inflict long-lasting pain worse than death on others
  • The torment of PTSD experienced by soldiers and their loved ones
  • Glimpses of how some survive torture, albeit at a high price
  • What revenge, remorse, redemption, reconciliation, forgiveness might look like


Notes

The Railway Man is based on Eric Lomax’ memoir. I have not read the book but understand from summaries that the film is close to the story except for some aspects of the ending.

I'd rate the film 4 of 5 stars. The only negative for me was the awkward shuffling between the present and the past. I also wanted to know more about Eric's wife but that may have been too much for a standard screen time.

Cite this blog post

Sutton, G. W. (2016, March 30). The railway man. [Web log post]. Retrieved from
http://suttonreviews.suttong.com/2016/03/ptsd-and-recovery-come-alive-in-railway.html 



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Sunday, March 20, 2016

Hope and Couple Therapy

The Book:

Couple Therapy: 

A New Hope-Focused Approach

By

Jennifer S. Ripley

 and

 Everett L. Worthington Jr.


Reviewed by
Geoffrey W. Sutton



My connection to Couple Therapy

I’ve studied hope in Christian samples for several years and find it a powerful motivational dimension of human functioning. Level of hope predicts counseling outcomes. The contents of this book fit well with my view of couple counseling.

Disclosure: I know both authors but I got my book from the Encounter Journal for purposes of review.

What’s Couple Therapy About?

Couple Therapy is an approach to couple therapy grounded in the belief that a Christian’s faith in God leads to hope and that this combination of faith and hope can lead to loving relationships.

The book is written for professional counselors, pastors, and lay counselors, but the authors also note that married couples may benefit from the principles and interventions covered in the thirty chapters.

In contrast with other approaches that focus on relationship satisfaction, Ripley and Worthington focus on four goals: warmth, virtue, health, and happiness. In this view, couple counseling helps couples develop a warm and strong relationship characterized by virtues.

In addition, a healthy relationship is characterized by respect and caring and couples need hope that they will find happiness in love.

Key strengths of Couple Therapy

300 interventions to improve couple relationships
75 new interventions added to the prior edition
Worksheets and handouts
Downloadable materials
Clear and well-organized

Full review

My full review is published in Encounter and is available at no charge from their website. Here’s the link:

Cite this blog post

Sutton, G. W. (2016, March). Hope and Couple Therapy [Web log post]. Retrieved from http://suttonreviews.suttong.com/

The reviewed book

Ripley, J. S. & Worthington, E.L. Jr. (2014). Couple therapy: A new hope-focused approach. Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity.

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